Boys will be Boys!

Monday, January 26, 2009

What is it with men? Ive been meeting a lot of men, tall , white, caramal, dark, sexy, hott, not so hot, crazy, jungleee, corporate...and the first thing they ask is " DO YOU COOK" LMAO. I mean whats it to you if cook or don't? its not like were getting married tomorrow. What if i don't know how to cook? does that mean your going to stop talking to me? I'm to busy to cook, i mean if you wanna cook me something, go ahead the kitchen is right there...and you can be sure ill eat it all up to. LOL. Its the 25th century boys, in case you didnt realize that women are very independent, and they have other things on their mind then cooking you up a meal. When the time is right, ill throw it down in the kitchen....as for right now all I want to do is have as much fun and call me up some take away sushi, i mean that why its there, RIGHT? . OOOOUCHHHHH! lol Cheeeeea!
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Yaahhh the story of my life. I just wanna have fun...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's a basic question that is often used to probe how grounded woman may be. When answered, no I do not cook, a man is then able to begin considering things like: is this young lady not cooking because she doesn't know how, is too lazy to do so, or feels as if everyone should do for her and therefore has no need to cook. A woman who does cook comes across as independent, confident, and already brings something of value to the table.

Anonymous said...

However, it shouldn;t be the first few questions out of a mans mouth. Yes, i can cook but really i dont want to...im busy being independent in my other ways. Basically, its a question asked by many men....so after there done working chillin hanging out there expected a meal in front of their eyes. What if were working, chilling, hanging out and doing things to elevate to the next level...and get home really late? In that case, both men and women should be able to cook to please themselves! first then any other1

Anonymous said...

Sounds like you're working under the assumption that the man asking can not cook. Maybe he feels the same way you do, you should both be able to do so....but you're right, guys should work toward that question, not make it the first few, i think its a question that is ready to be asked when he's determining something deeper than common hello how are you where are you from type things....